Whether you are planning for a wedding, bridal shower, baby shower or other family celebration, look to us to add a personal touch to the occasion.   At Recipe Legacy, we believe that every family has recipes, photos or other unique memorabilia that should be carefully preserved and celebrated on family occasions.

Create a bridal shower memory album for the bride-to-be.   Each guest contributes a recipe, letter, poem or helpful hints page.  Guest icebreaker: at the shower, the guests put the album together - including photos taken at the shower.  

Our Recipe/Photo Album CDs provides artwork and instructions to do this easily.   Or read our family memory album e-book - it provides helpful hints for this type of album too.

To help you with your celebration planning, we offer ideas, gifts, favors, shower games, how-to ebooks and etiquette guidelines.   Planning for the celebration is part of the fun - so enjoy!

Bridal Shower hostesses are often faced with the challenge of creating a warm and comfortable atmosphere when, often, the guests do not know each other and are ages and interests apart? If the bride's aunts, school friends and colleagues at work are to enjoy this get-together equally, then there must be a well-chosen theme and some active involvement to bring the guests together.

We suggest getting everyone involved via party games- but choose those games with care. Find out as much as you can about the likes and dislikes of your guests, and fashion your activities to match the interests and personalities of your guests. Some people love the limelight while others flinch when a group focuses upon their answers. Choose themes that all guests can relate to, such as cooking or travel. If you can get people actively working together in small groups, so much the better. Playing charades is great for getting a small group to interact.

Plan to have some music going in the background to set the mood. This will assure that early lapses in conversation are not pronounced. Make sure the music is low so that it will not drown out the conversation. Try show music if the age group is varied. Another idea would be to choose a CD of wedding music that will set the tone and provide a talking point with regard to the upcoming wedding. When the shower is over, give the CD to the bride. This will be of help to her when deciding upon what music to request for her walk down the aisle or for her first dance with her new husband.

When considering whether to have a sit down luncheon or a buffet, remember that many people are not adept at holding a plate and drink on their lap. If you do decide on a buffet, set place settings around a table or tables. There are a number of good reasons for doing this:

Place cards give an elegant air to your table. They are also an excellent method of assuring that any of your shy guests have friendly table partners to talk to.

Popular bridal shower favors include individual potted plants, decorative candles, place card frames or photo frames. Any of these will add interest and decoration to your table.

At some time during the meal, there should be a toast to the bride. Mimosa (orange juice with champagne) is always a hit at a brunch. If you don't want to serve liquor, there are many good non-alcoholic champagne choices available now.

Select a menu that can be prepared ahead of time. You don't want to be busy in the kitchen when you could be mingling with your guests. Casseroles are a best bet. A considerate hostess makes sure every guest has enough food choices, so if any of your guests might be vegetarian, make sure there is something for them to choose. Vegetarians are often left to pick at a roll with some lettuce! A meatless bean dish provides protein for vegetarians. If you plan to serve a chicken or shrimp salad, consider setting some salad aside for your vegetarian guests before adding the chicken or shrimp.

Remember to wrap small prizes to award for the games. People love getting wrapped surprises. Some award gift ideas that are easy to wrap are disposable cameras, cosmetic pouches, photo frames and candles.

Be sure to have a camera handy to take plenty of photos. The bride will appreciate photos of her relatives and friends taken on this important occasion. Take some photos while the bride unwraps her gifts - there will be lots of smiles to capture.

Schedule the gift unwrapping well before the party is due to end. Guests who have to leave at a fixed time are often disappointed when they don't get to see the bride open the gift that they have chosen for her.

For the gift unwrapping ceremony, you will need a prominent chair for the bride, a writing pad for the gift list, a sturdy paper plate for the shower bouquet and a plastic bag for quick disposal of the discarded wrapping paper.

Before settling your guests down for this ritual, decide who will be writing down a description of the gift and the name of the giver, as the bride unwraps her gifts. You will want to make sure that this person is seated near the bride. Choose another guest to sit near the bride and create the shower bouquet - traditionally accomplished by taking the bows and ribbon from the wrappings and threading them through a paper plate. To get more people involved, you might want to request that another guest be responsible for passing around each gift for all to examine. Select yet another volunteer to repackage each gift (with each gift card inserted in the correct gift box, so that thank-you notes are easy to do!)

While a bridal shower is especially for the bride, make it an occasion that all guests will remember fondly - including the hostess!